Helping Children who have hardened their hearts or become bullies

Author: Margot Sunderland
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1351693565
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 72

Book Description
This is a guidebook to help children who: - bully or take revenge on others for the pain they have felt themselves - have become very defensive because something too painful has happened to them - have hardened their hearts because they have: been too hurt in love; met with too much harshness; witnessed parental violence; been repeatedly hit; been shamed or humiliated; or - had too many experiences of not being responded to - think they have lost their parent's love to someone else and have hardened their heart.

A Wibble Called Bipley

Author: Margot Sunderland
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1351693352
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 40

Book Description
A story for children who have hardened their hearts or become bullies. Bipley is a warm cuddly creature, but someone has broken his heart. He feels so hurt that he decides it is just too painful to ever love again. When he meets some big tough Honks in the wood, they teach him how to harden his heart so that he doesn't have to feel hurt any more. Luckily Bipley meets some creatures who teach him how he can protect himself without hardening his heart.

Helping Children Who are Anxious or Obsessional

Author: Margot Sunderland
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1351693700
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 81

Book Description
This is a guidebook to help children who: are insecure or worry too much; suffer from phobias or nightmares; find it difficult to concentrate to let go and have fun; have suffered a trauma; are worryingly good or seem like little adults; use order and routine as a way of coping with 'messy' feelings; retreat into dullness as a way of managing their being in the world; and, develop obsessive-compulsive behaviour in order to ward off their too-powerful feelings.

A Nifflenoo Called Nevermind

Author: Margot Sunderland
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1351693689
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 32

Book Description
A story for children who bottle up their feelings. Nevermind always carries on whatever happens! Each time something horrible happens to him he just tucks his feelings away and carries on with life. Find out what happens to Nevermind and how he begins to understand that his feelings do matter, how he learns to express them and stand up for himself.

Helping Children with Loss

Author: Margot Sunderland
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1351693131
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 89

Book Description
This is a guidebook to help children who: are suffering from the pain of loss or separation from someone or something they love deeply; have had a parent, relative or important friend leave or die; are obsessed with their absent parent; have lost someone they love, but have never really mourned; are trying to manage all their painful feelings of loss by themselves; feel that they have lost the love of someone they love deeply; are suffering from separation anxiety; and are adopted or fostered children who miss their birth parent terribly. Helping Children with Loss Using this engaging story and practical guidebook you can help children suffering from the pain of loss or separation. They may be: grieving for the death of a parent, relative or important friend; obsessed with an absent parent; struggling to mourn a loss; trying to manage all of their painful feelings by themselves; suffering from separation anxiety; and adopted or fostered children who miss their birth parent.

The Frog Who Longed for the Moon to Smile

Author: Margot Sunderland
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1351687271
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 31

Book Description
A story for children who yearn for someone they love. Frog is very much in love with the moon because she once smiled at him. So now he spends all his time dreaming about her. He waits and waits for her to smile at him again. One day a wise and friendly crow helps frog to see how he is wasting his life away. All the time he has been facing the place of very little, he's had his back to the place of plenty.

Helping Children Pursue Their Hopes and Dreams

Author: Margot Sunderland
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1351693794
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 53

Book Description
This is a guidebook to help children who: have been given too little encouragement to follow their hopes and dreams; are too despondent or defeated to go after their hopes or their dreams; are too busy surviving, so hopes and dreams are a luxury they cannot afford; think that hopes and dreams are just for other people; do not follow their dreams because they are too afraid of failing; are following somebody else's star; and, only dream small dreams for themselves, from a fear of being big.

Helping Children with Low Self-Esteem & Ruby and the Rubbish Bin

Author: Margot Sunderland
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1000474453
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 130

Book Description
This practical guidebook, with a beautifully-illustrated storybook, enables teachers, parents and professionals to help children aged 4-12 connect with unresolved feelings affecting their behaviour. Helping Children with Low Self-Esteem is a guidebook to help children who: don't like themselves or feel there is something fundamentally wrong with them have been deeply shamed have received too much criticism or haven't been encouraged enough let people treat them badly because they feel they don't deserve better do not accept praise or appreciation because they feel they don't deserve it feel defeated by life, fundamentally unimportant, unwanted or unlovable bully because they think they are worthless or think they are worthless because they are bullied and, feel they don't belong or do not seek friends because they think no-one would want to be their friend. Ruby and the Rubbish Bin is a story for children with low self-esteem. Ruby hates herself so much that she often feels more like a piece of rubbish than a little girl. Sometimes Ruby feels so miserable that she wants to sleep and sleep and never wake up again. Then Ruby meets Dot and, over time, Dot helps Ruby to move from self-hate to self-respect. After a very important dream, and help from Dot, Ruby finds her voice and her anger, and stands up to the bullies. She makes new friends and knows what it's like to feel happy for the first time in her life.

Willy and the Wobbly House

Author: Margot Sunderland
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1351372289
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 28

Book Description
This is a story for children who are anxious or obsessional. Willy is an anxious boy who experiences the world as a very unsafe, wobbly place where anything awful might happen at any time. Joe, the boy next door, is too ordered and tidy to be able to ever really enjoy life. Follow their adventures with the Puddle People who help them break out of their fixed patterns and find far richer ways of living in the world.

Teenie Weenie in a Too Big World

Author: Margot Sunderland
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1351699490
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 37

Book Description
(A story for fearful children) One day Teenie Weenie finds himself in a scrumbly screechy place. It is full of noises and crashes and things that swoop and scratch. The worse it gets, the smaller Teenie Weenie feels. After a while, he feels so small that the tiniest insect tries to eat him up. Teenie Weenie feels terrified and desperately alone. But after a while along strolls a Wip-Wop bird who invites Teenie Weenie to come and have a chocolate muffin in his tree house. With the Wip Wop bird and his friend Hoggie, Teenie Weenie learns for the first time in his life all about the power of TOGETHER. He comes to know how very different things look when it's an US not just a ME. And so after that, whenever Teenie Weenie finds himself struggling alone with something too difficult or too frightening, he goes off and finds some TOGETHER.