How to Use Your Enemies

Author: Baltasar Gracián
Publisher: Penguin UK
ISBN: 0141398280
Category : Literary Collections
Languages : en
Pages : 56

Book Description
'Better mad with the crowd than sane all alone' In these witty, Machiavellian aphorisms, unlikely Spanish priest Baltasar Gracián shows us how to exploit friends and enemies alike to thrive in a world of deception and illusion. Introducing Little Black Classics: 80 books for Penguin's 80th birthday. Little Black Classics celebrate the huge range and diversity of Penguin Classics, with books from around the world and across many centuries. They take us from a balloon ride over Victorian London to a garden of blossom in Japan, from Tierra del Fuego to 16th-century California and the Russian steppe. Here are stories lyrical and savage; poems epic and intimate; essays satirical and inspirational; and ideas that have shaped the lives of millions. Baltasar Gracián (1601-1658). Gracián's work is available in Penguin Classics in The Pocket Oracle and Art of Prudence.

Love Your Enemies

Author: Arthur C. Brooks
Publisher: HarperCollins
ISBN: 0062883771
Category : Political Science
Languages : en
Pages : 256

Book Description
NATIONAL BESTSELLER To get ahead today, you have to be a jerk, right? Divisive politicians. Screaming heads on television. Angry campus activists. Twitter trolls. Today in America, there is an “outrage industrial complex” that prospers by setting American against American, creating a “culture of contempt”—the habit of seeing people who disagree with us not as merely incorrect, but as worthless and defective. Maybe, like more than nine out of ten Americans, you dislike it. But hey, either you play along, or you’ll be left behind, right? Wrong. In Love Your Enemies, social scientist and author of the #1 New York Times bestseller From Strength to Strength Arthur C. Brooks shows that abuse and outrage are not the right formula for lasting success. Brooks blends cutting-edge behavioral research, ancient wisdom, and a decade of experience leading one of America’s top policy think tanks in a work that offers a better way to lead based on bridging divides and mending relationships. Brooks’ prescriptions are unconventional. To bring America together, we shouldn’t try to agree more. There is no need for mushy moderation, because disagreement is the secret to excellence. Civility and tolerance shouldn’t be our goals, because they are hopelessly low standards. And our feelings toward our foes are irrelevant; what matters is how we choose to act. Love Your Enemies offers a clear strategy for victory for a new generation of leaders. It is a rallying cry for people hoping for a new era of American progress. Most of all, it is a roadmap to arrive at the happiness that comes when we choose to love one another, despite our differences.

The 48 Laws of Power

Author: Robert Greene
Publisher: Penguin
ISBN: 0670881465
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 481

Book Description
Amoral, cunning, ruthless, and instructive, this multi-million-copy New York Times bestseller is the definitive manual for anyone interested in gaining, observing, or defending against ultimate control – from the author of The Laws of Human Nature. In the book that People magazine proclaimed “beguiling” and “fascinating,” Robert Greene and Joost Elffers have distilled three thousand years of the history of power into 48 essential laws by drawing from the philosophies of Machiavelli, Sun Tzu, and Carl Von Clausewitz and also from the lives of figures ranging from Henry Kissinger to P.T. Barnum. Some laws teach the need for prudence (“Law 1: Never Outshine the Master”), others teach the value of confidence (“Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness”), and many recommend absolute self-preservation (“Law 15: Crush Your Enemy Totally”). Every law, though, has one thing in common: an interest in total domination. In a bold and arresting two-color package, The 48 Laws of Power is ideal whether your aim is conquest, self-defense, or simply to understand the rules of the game.

How to profit by one’s enemies

Author: Plutarch
Publisher: GOODmood
ISBN: 8862776497
Category : Philosophy
Languages : en
Pages : 30

Book Description
Who among us does not have rivals? Plutarch writes about it as easily as only great communicators do, and explains how to treat those who are not on our side. In "De capienda former inimicis utilitate": "How to profit by one’s enemies," the great philosopher introduces his thought with irony but also with overwhelming logic, revealing an infallible system for winning in a confrontation with one’s enemies. Rules conceived long ago, but which are relevant more than ever. A great help to improve our relationships with others.

Bullies to Buddies

Author: Izzy Kalman
Publisher:
ISBN: 9780970648211
Category : Juvenile Nonfiction
Languages : en
Pages : 112

Book Description
Discusses the aggressive behavior known as bullying, covering causes, types of bullying, and ways to respond to a bully.

How to Have an Enemy

Author: Melissa Florer-Bixler
Publisher: MennoMedia, Inc.
ISBN: 151380815X
Category : Religion
Languages : en
Pages : 188

Book Description
Does Jesus’ call to love our enemies mean that we should remain silent in the face of injustice? Jesus called us to love our enemies. But to befriend an enemy, we first have to acknowledge their existence, understand who they are, and recognize the ways they are acting in opposition to God’s good news. In How to Have an Enemy: Righteous Anger and the Work of Peace, Melissa Florer-Bixler looks closely at what the Bible says about enemies—who they are, what they do, and how Jesus and his followers responded to them. The result is a theology that allows us to name our enemies as a form of truth-telling about ourselves, our communities, and the histories in which our lives are embedded. Only then can we grapple with the power of the acts of destruction carried out by our enemies, and invite them to lay down their enmity, opening a path for healing, reconciliation, and unity. Jesus named and confronted his enemies as an essential part to loving them. In this provocative book, Florer-Bixler calls us to do the same.

How to Live and Deal with Enemies

Author: Henry Appiahkorang Duodu
Publisher: Independently Published
ISBN: 9781792192494
Category : Religion
Languages : en
Pages : 76

Book Description
We live in a world surrounded by different people. Some people are very logical in their way of life. Some people are intellectual in their thought pattern and way of living. Some people live the culture if the neighbourhood. They live by the traditions of the community. Others pretend to be your friend but inwardly they have a hatred for your success. It will be very dangerous to live with someone who pretends to be your lover. Inwardly they are ravening wolves. The enemy you allow into your life will destroy you at the end. Most times the enemies are the ones closest to you. They may be your close relatives. You cannot afford to live with someone who desires to destroy your purpose and progress in life. They hijack people in psychiatric hospitals. They never thought a loved one would betray them. Some people have died prematurely by the works of their unknown enemies. I believe God is about to speak to you through this book. It is good to have a positive mindset, but it is more dangerous to do away with the negative side of men. Jesus Christ was positive to his loved ones. When He came near the religious people, He discerned into their thoughts and faced them to the face. Jesus Christ was positive and negative in all His dealings because He knew what was in man. The ability to discern the voice of the enemy gives you an advantage over the wicked plans they have designed for you. Read for yourself. John 2:24 But Jesus did not commit himself unto them because he knew all men. John 2:25 And needed not that any should testify of man: for he knew what was in man. In this book, you will find divine and practical keys that will enable you to discern the voice of the enemy. I have written the kinds of enemies, the ways they operate and how to deal with them. God is about to use this book to help broaden your mind in the knowledge of the Word concerning your enemies.

Take No Prisoners

Author: Mack Nasty
Publisher: Loompanics Unltd
ISBN: 9781559500432
Category : Games
Languages : en
Pages : 118

Book Description
Ever been wronged by somebody you can't strike back at? Being hassled by an obnoxious bureaucrat who has the law on his side, for example? The books in this section will show you a multitude of ways that you can get even with anybody and remain anonymous. We must warn you these books are sold for entertainment purposes only! "Take No Prisoners goes beyond petty tricks and teaches you how to destroy your enemy's life". -- bOING bOING Mack Nasty doesn't believe in holding a grudge. He believes in swift, sure and devastating retribution. In this book, Mack reveals the most deliciously despicable revenge techniques ever conceived. How to destroy your enemy's house or car. How to get someone arrested for drug trafficking, kiddie porn, firearms violations or product tampering.

Love Your Enemies

Author: Sharon Salzberg
Publisher: Hay House, Inc
ISBN: 1401929575
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 171

Book Description
When people and circumstances upset us, how do we deal with them? Often, we feel victimized. We become hurt, angry, and defensive. We end up seeing others as enemies, and when things don't go our way, we become enemies to ourselves. But what if we could move past this pain, anger, and defensiveness? Inspired by Buddhist philosophy, this book introduces us to the four kinds of enemies we encounter in life: the outer enemy, people, institutions, and situations that mean to harm us; the inner enemy, anger, hatred, fear, and other destructive emotions; the secret enemy, self-obsession that isolates us from others; and the super-secret enemy, deep-seated self-loathing that prevents us from finding inner freedom and true happiness. In this practical guide, we learn not only how to identify our enemies, but more important, how to transform our relationship to them. Love Your Enemies teaches us how to: - Break free from the mode of "us" versus "them" thinking - develop compassion, patience, and love - Accept what is beyond our control - Embrace lovingkindness, right speech, and other core concepts Throughout, authors Sharon Salzberg and Robert Thurman share stories and exercises for achieving finding peace within yourself and with the world. Drawing from ancient spiritual wisdom and modern psychology, Love Your Enemies presents tools that are useful for all readers.

Gaslighting

Author: Victor Santoro
Publisher: Loompanics Unltd
ISBN: 9781559501132
Category : Literary Criticism
Languages : en
Pages : 113

Book Description
You know what's wrong with the world? Too many assholes & not enough ways to get even! If your boss is bearing down or your next door neighbor's annoying, whatcha gonna do? If you retaliate, it could cost you your job or land you in jail. Now there's a safe, effective way for you to get even without putting yourself in any danger. It's called "gaslighting," & it's guaranteed to turn your target's life upside down. "Gaslighting" means to drive someone crazy. It comes from the 1944 film Gaslight, in which a husband convinces his wife she's losing her mind. Gaslighting is the most potent form of psychological warfare you can use without a license. In Gaslighting: How To Drive Your Enemies Crazy, Victor Santoro (The "Godfather of Harassment") shows you how to destroy your target's confidence, self-esteem & reputation. Through a series of small incidents, your target gets progressively more confused, until he's "reduced to a shapeless mass of shivering, quivering jelly." Some of the tactics covered include: Collecting information on your target Preparing for a gaslighting attack Creating tension, anxiety & sleeplessness Messing with your target's car, telephone & mail Gaslighting at your target's workplace & home Turning neighbors & co-workers against the target Covering your tracks And much more. Gaslighting will show you how to cause disorientation, get your target off balance, & build up his paranoia. Finally, you completely annihilate his reputation, leading to personal disasters such as job loss, divorce, financial devastation - even jail. If you've been mistreated, you don't have to take it & you don't have to fight back. There is a third route - Gaslighting - WHERE YOU WATCH AS YOUR ENEMY SLOWLY SCREWS HIMSELF! Sold for entertainment purposes only.