Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy

Author: Zachary Stockill
Publisher: CreateSpace
ISBN: 9781502891921
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 106

Book Description
ARE YOU TIRED OF CONSTANTLY THINKING ABOUT YOUR PARTNER'S PAST RELATIONSHIPS? Are you interested in letting go of obsessive jealous thoughts, anxiety, and curiosity about your partner's past? Wouldn't it feel great to be completely free from retroactive jealousy, and be able to move forward in your relationship without worry about the past? What if I told you that you already have the "cure" for overcoming retroactive jealousy? You do-all you need is the proper guidance. And that's where "Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy" comes in. Written from the perspective of one who has struggled with, and eventually overcome, obsessive jealousy surrounding a partner's past, Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy is the only guidebook you will ever need to let go of jealous thoughts, curiosity, and anxiety about your partner's past relationships/sexual history. AFTER READING YOU WILL: have access to a multi-step program that will help you to let go of your jealousy and anxiety begin incorporating coping exercises into your daily routine which will eliminate your jealous thoughts as soon as they appear feel a new sense of optimism and confidence in your ability to grow and overcome retroactive jealousy understand what your jealousy is really about, and have a concrete plan of action for overcoming it, and moving forward You might currently feel hopeless; like retroactive jealousy is something that you'll just be forced to "live with" until you die. You might even be severely depressed, mired in obsessive jealous thoughts and confusion. Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy will show you that you are suffering needlessly-and show you the way forward. In nineteen chapters, author Zachary Stockill outlines a series of time-tested effective strategies, practices, and exercises for confronting, and eventually overcoming, jealousy regarding your partner's past as painlessly, efficiently, and quickly as possible. A NOTE FROM THE AUTHOR: Several years ago, I experienced "crippling" retroactive jealousy. It disrupted my career, destroyed my relationship, and provoked months of anguish and depression. But thankfully, through a process of self-exploration, hard work, growth, and discovery, I overcame it. Based on my experience, and several years of research and talking to fellow sufferers about their condition, I wrote this book to give you a step-by-step program to help you do the same, and overcome retroactive jealousy as quickly and easily as possible. I know that this step-by-step program is effective because since 2013 my book has helped "thousands" of readers get over retroactive jealousy, save their relationships, and regain control. In retrospect, my jealousy was a blessing in disguise. As I write to you today, I am undoubtedly a stronger, more confident, more loving, and overall better man for having gone through it. It might not seem like it now, but you too can use your jealousy to your advantage. Seriously--as you overcome retroactive jealousy, you will emerge a stronger, more confident, more attractive, and more loving person and partner. And it's my pleasure to guide you every step of the way. So whether you're struggling with your girlfriend's past, wife's past, husband's past, or your boyfriend's past, you need to know that you have the power to move forward, and kiss jealous thoughts goodbye. You can get a hold on your brain, and patterns of constant curiosity and obsessive thinking. You can move forward in your relationship without the burden and strain of retroactive jealousy. You can be the partner you want to be-you just have to understand where retroactive jealousy comes from, and how to deal with it. SO LET'S GET STARTED! Get your copy of the most popular guidebook on the market for overcoming retroactive jealousy, and join thousands of readers who have regained control, and found peace."

Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy

Author: Zachary Stockill
Publisher:
ISBN: 9780992005009
Category :
Languages : en
Pages :

Book Description
Are you tired of constantly thinking about your partner's past relationships and/or sexual history?Are you interested in letting go of constant painful thoughts and anxiety?What if I told you that you already have the "cure" for overcoming retroactive jealousy? You do -- all you need is a little guidance.I write from the rare perspective of one who has struggled with, and eventually overcome, intense jealousy surrounding my partner's past. I am confident that "Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy" is the only guide you will ever need to letting go of jealous thoughts and anxiety about your partner's past, overcoming constant unrest and worry, and finding greater peace.Part One: The Situation contains five chapters that deal with what retroactive jealousy is, what it looks and feels like, where it comes from, and what it means for you.Part Two: The Solution offers a practical step-by-step program to overcoming retroactive jealousy. In fourteen chapters, I lay out effective strategies, practices, and exercises for confronting, and eventually overcoming, jealousy regarding your partner's past as painlessly and efficiently as possible. I know they are effective because these exercises and practices are what enabled me to get over my own retroactive jealousy.I write from the rare perspective of someone who has experienced crippling retroactive jealousy, and through a process of self-exploration, growth, and discovery, eventually overcome it. I wrote "Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy" to tell you that you can do the same.You might currently feel hopeless; like retroactive jealousy is something that you'll just be forced to "live with" until you die. You might even be severely depressed, mired in obsessive jealous thoughts and confusion. I'm here to tell you that you are suffering needlessly.After reading my guidebook you will:- have access to a new multi-step program that will help you to let go of your jealousy and anxiety- begin incorporating coping exercises into your daily routine which will reduce your jealous thoughts as soon as they appear- feel a new sense of optimism and confidence in your ability to grow and overcome retroactive jealousy- understand what your jealousy is really trying to tell youRetroactive jealousy forced me to grow, and helped to make me who I am today. Overcoming retroactive jealousy wasn't easy, but I am undoubtedly a stronger, more confident, more loving and overall better man for having gone through it.It might not seem like it now, but you too can use jealousy to your advantage. As you progress, you will emerge a stronger, more confident, more attractive, and more loving person and partner -- and it's my pleasure to guide you every step of the way.What readers are saying:"Thanks for writing such a great book... It's superb. Your advice has already given me instant help. I see the problem clearly and feel empowered to start the battle." - Ryan, UK"Wonderful and moving. I loved the short, punchy chapters and the no-nonsense writing... Your book has given me ideas, inspiration, encouragement, and reassurance that I can handle anything." - Philip, UK"I somehow stumbled across your site while looking for answers, and not getting any, as usual! Yours is the first book that really resonated with me and offered a practical guide to getting over RJ, as opposed to the usual cliches that make sense intellectually but don't actually work." - Alan, USA"Thank-you for everything. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel now... It is wonderful to know that there is hope in this struggle." - Oxana,...

The Ultimate Retroactive Jealousy Cure

Author: Jeff Billings
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781522098317
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 94

Book Description
Learn how to get over Retroactive Jealousy in 12 Steps without spending a fortune on therapy. Is your mind caught in a vicious circle of repetitive thoughts about your partner's past love life?Are you extremely bothered by the fact that they once engaged in casual sex? Or were in love with someone else?Are you constantly wondering how to get over your girlfriend's past? Or boyfriend, husband, wife's? Don't Worry, I Know What You're Going Through...I was also once afflicted by retroactive jealousy issues -- irrational jealous thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past -- and struggled FOR MONTHS to overcome them.Platitudes like "Just move on," or "The past is the past" were well intentioned but, as you probably know, completely meaningless.BUT finally, after months of battling, I discovered the secret of how to overcome my girlfriend's past sexual exploits...My retroactive jealousy book will help squash all jealousy of your partner's past, for good. Inside I will teach you the ultimate retroactive jealousy cure -- how to overcome retroactive jealousy in a relationship 12 SIMPLE STEPS.Learn which TWO KEY EMOTIONS are fueling your retrospective jealousy, AND how to get rid of them.REWIRE your mind to think about your partner's past in a whole new positive light. "What you resist, persists!"Learn how to BREAK the cycle of resisting these jealous thoughts and feeling worse because of it.Stop interrogating your loved one about their past behaviour and zero in on what really matters -- THE PRESENT.In short, learn how to not care AT ALL about your husband, boyfriend, wife or girlfriend's sexual or romantic history.Learn How To Stop Being Jealous In Your Relationship In 14,300 words, 12 steps, 3 sections: Part 1: Understanding Retroactive Jealousy IssuesDiscover just what a retroactive jealousy disorder is. As Yoda used to say "Named must your fear be, before banish it you can." Part 2: Rewiring The MindThe next four steps tackle how you're thinking about your partner's sexual history and rewires these thoughts to reframe them in a much more positive light. As you'll find out, retroactive jealousy and insecurity go hand in hand. Part 3: Practical ExercisesYou can't overcome retroactive jealousy in a relationship by thinking about it. In this last section I give you four hands-on practical exercises that you can do every day to kill all your anxiety about your partner's past. Join The 100s Of Satisfied Customers Who've Beaten Retroactive Jealousy OCDHere's what just one of my happy customers had to say about my book about overcoming retroactive jealousy:"Something must have deeply echoed with my subconscious....as well as my rational mind and these feelings were GONE. Years of making myself depressed and hurting my peace and energy over imaginary stuff.....gone.... Thank you! You are a good man."-- Pat. O. St Louis (see original email from Pat here: goo.gl/ovqwhu) Get your thoughts back under control and end the "mini-movies" about the past and let go of your angry, judgmental, and jealous emotions and feel at peace once again. Onward!-- Jeff

Brain Lock

Author: Jeffrey M. Schwartz
Publisher: HarperCollins
ISBN: 0062568655
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 224

Book Description
The definitive classic that has helped more than 400,000 people defeat obsessive-compulsive behavior, with all-new material from the author An estimated 5 million Americans suffer from obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and live diminished lives in which they are compelled to obsess about something or to repeat a similar task over and over. Traditionally, OCD has been treated with Prozac or similar drugs. The problem with medication, aside from its cost, is that 30 percent of people treated don't respond to it, and when the pills stop, the symptoms invariably return. In Brain Lock, Jeffrey M. Schwartz, M.D., presents a simple four-step method for overcoming OCD that is so effective, it's now used in academic treatment centers throughout the world. Proven by brain-imaging tests to actually alter the brain's chemistry, this method doesn't rely on psychopharmaceuticals. Instead, patients use cognitive self-therapy and behavior modification to develop new patterns of response to their obsessions. In essence, they use the mind to fix the brain. Using the real-life stories of actual patients, Brain Lock explains this revolutionary method and provides readers with the inspiration and tools to free themselves from their psychic prisons and regain control of their lives.

The Overcoming Jealousy Workbook

Author: Zachary Stockill
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781070654140
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 224

Book Description
Jealousy and possessiveness have the potential to destroy any relationship. Left unchecked, our jealousy can push our partner away, destroy our self-esteem, and rob us of the life and love we deserve. But thankfully, we each have the power to change.Written by the author of the popular guidebook Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy, and the founder of RetroactiveJealousy.com, the Overcoming Jealousy Workbook features eleven weeks of writing prompts and journaling exercises for confronting and overcoming jealousy in relationships. Drawing insights from cognitive behavioural therapy and cutting-edge psychological research, as well as ancient Buddhist and Stoic philosophy, this workbook is designed for any jealousy sufferer who wants to quickly get a handle on their problem, and emerge from the hell of jealousy and possessiveness. Whether approached as a standalone project, or as a supplement to another personal development book or program, the Overcoming Jealousy Workbook will help any jealousy sufferer better understand the roots of their feelings, and more importantly, the actions necessary to move forward, and save and strengthen their relationship.

The Jealousy Cure

Author: Robert L. Leahy
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
ISBN: 1626259771
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 185

Book Description
"The Jealousy Cure unlocks the positive power of jealousy for happy relationships." —Foreword Reviews "Solid counsel for those whose relationships are plagued by jealousy and the individuals it targets." —Library Journal starred review Could jealousy be a positive thing? In this groundbreaking book, Robert L. Leahy—author of the hugely popular self-help guide, The Worry Cure—invites you to gain a greater understanding of your jealous feelings, keep jealousy from hijacking your life, and create healthier relationships. We’ve all heard tales of the overly jealous spouse or significant other. Maybe we’ve even been that jealous person, though we may not want to admit it. It’s hard to imagine anyone sailing through life without either having feelings of jealousy or being the target of someone’s jealousy. But what if jealousy isn’t just a neurotic weakness? What if it signals that your relationship matters to you? In short—what if jealousy serves a purpose? In The Jealousy Cure, renowned psychologist Robert L. Leahy takes a more nuanced approach to tackling feelings of jealousy. In this compelling book, you’ll uncover the evolutionary origins of jealousy, and how and why it’s served to help us as a species. You’ll also learn practices based in emotional schema theory, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and mindfulness to help you overcome the shame jealousy can bring, improve communication with your partner, and ultimately make room for jealousy while also making your relationship more meaningful. You will learn that confronting jealousy in your relationship does not have to be a catastrophe, but can redirect you and your partner to build more trust, acceptance, and connection. We often feel jealous because we fear losing the things or people that matter to us the most. With this insightful guide, you’ll discover how jealousy can both help and hurt your relationship, and learn proven-effective skills to keep jealousy in its place. This book has been selected as an Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies Self-Help Book Recommendation— an honor bestowed on outstanding self-help books that are consistent with cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) principles and that incorporate scientifically tested strategies for overcoming mental health difficulties. Used alone or in conjunction with therapy, our books offer powerful tools readers can use to jump-start changes in their lives.

Getting Past Your Breakup

Author: Susan Elliott JD, MEd
Publisher: Da Capo Lifelong Books
ISBN: 0738213284
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 266

Book Description
Self Help.

Moody Bitches

Author: Julie Holland
Publisher: Penguin
ISBN: 069813642X
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 434

Book Description
A groundbreaking guide for women of all ages that shows their natural moodiness is a strength, not a weakness As women, we learn from an early age that our moods are a problem, an annoyance to be stuffed away. But our bodies are wiser than we imagine. Moods are a finely tuned feedback system that allows us to be more empathic, intuitive, and aware of our own capabilities. If we deny our emotionality, we deny the breadth of our talents. Yet millions of American women are medicating away their emotions with psychiatric drugs whose effects are more far-reaching than most of us realize. And even if we don’t pop a pill, women everywhere are numbing their emotions with food, alcohol, and a host of addictive behaviors that deny the wisdom of our bodies and keep us from addressing the real issues we face. Psychiatrist Julie Holland knows there is a better way. In Moody Bitches, she shares insider information about the drugs we’re being offered and the direct link between food and mood, and she offers practical advice on sex, exercise, and sleep strategies, as well as some surprisingly effective natural therapies. In the tradition of Our Bodies, Our Selves, this groundbreaking guide will forge a much needed new path in women’s health—and offer women invaluable information on how to live better, and be more balanced, at every stage of life.

Everyday Joy

Author: Zachary Stockill
Publisher: CreateSpace
ISBN: 9781507630938
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 122

Book Description
"Everyday Joy is a must-read for anyone who's contemplated life's contemplatables" -- bestselling author Paul JarvisWouldn't it be nice to experience greater joy in everyday life? Wouldn't it feel liberating to be able to transcend painful experiences? Wouldn't it feel great to be a more appreciative, and happier person, and help the people you love grow happier too? Jam-packed with practical exercises, and hard-won lessons from the author's life, Everyday Joy was written for anyone who wants to experience greater happiness, joy, and fulfilment each and every day of their life. But this is not your typical "self-help" book. In a series of short, to-the-point articles, author Zachary Stockill tackles subjects like drugs, death, and desire with great humour and sensitivity, all the while offering no-nonsense suggestions and perspectives on growing into a happier, healthier human being. Part self-help, part intimate-memoir, Everyday Joy offers a radical re-interpretation of the idea of "partying," and shows how you can, in fact, choose to "party" every day of your life. If you are someone who wants to be happier, more peaceful, and more open to experiencing real joy in each and every moment, this book was written for you. PRAISE FOR EVERYDAY JOY: "A must-read for anyone who's contemplated life's contemplatables... Everyday Joy offers an interesting and inspirational new look at the human condition." --Paul Jarvis, bestselling author of Everything I Know "Simply put: Everyday Joy belongs on your bookshelf, sandwiched between Alan Watts and Tom Robbins... A perfect cocktail mixing clarity, humour, and deep insight that goes down smooth." --Zach Obront, blogger and entrepreneur "Everyday Joy showed me just how much being stuck in the stresses of my to-do list was getting in the way of a fulfilled life, and inspired me to stop, look up into the world, and breathe again." --Matthew Newton, founder of TourTiger.com, and co-host of Web Agency Podcast "Everyday Joy is great... Very fun and enjoyable read!" --Joshua Waldman, author of Job Searching with Social Media for Dummies

The Wisdom of Insecurity

Author: Alan Watts
Publisher: Vintage
ISBN: 0307809862
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 112

Book Description
An acclaimed philosopher shows us how—in an age of unprecedented anxiety—we can find fulfillment by embracing the present and living more fully in the now. He is "the perfect guide for a course correction in life" (from the Introduction by Deepak Chopra). The brain can only assume its proper behavior when consciousness is doing what it is designed for: not writhing and whirling to get out of present experience, but being effortlessly aware of it. Alan Watts draws on the wisdom of Eastern philosophy and religion in this timeless and classic guide to living a more fulfilling life. His central insight is more relevant now than ever: when we spend all of our time worrying about the future and lamenting the past, we are unable to enjoy the present moment—the only one we are actually able to inhabit. Watts offers the liberating message that true certitude and security come only from understanding that impermanence and insecurity are the essence of our existence. He highlights the futility of endlessly chasing moving goalposts, whether they consist of financial success, stability, or escape from pain, and shows that it is only by acknowledging what we do not know that we can learn anything truly worth knowing. In The Wisdom of Insecurity, Watts explains complex concepts in beautifully simple terms, making this the kind of book you can return to again and again for comfort and insight in challenging times. “Perhaps the foremost interpreter of Eastern disciplines for the contemporary West, Watts had the rare gift of ‘writing beautifully the unwritable.’” —Los Angeles Times