The Betrayal Bond

Author: Patrick Carnes
Publisher: Health Communications Incorporated
ISBN: 0757318231
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 338

Book Description
Some really great books just keep getting better! For seventeen years The Betrayal Bond has been the primary source for therapists and patients wrestling the effects of emotional pain and harm caused by exploitation from someone they trusted. Divorce, litigation, incest and child abuse, domestic violence, kidnapping, professional exploitation and religious abuse are all areas of trauma bonding. These are situations and relationships of incredible intensity or importance lend themselves more easily to an exploitation of trust or power. In The Betrayal Bond, Dr. Carnes presents an in-depth study of these relationships; why they form, who is most susceptible, and how they become so powerful. Dr. Carnes also gives a clear explanation of the bond that compels people to tolerate the intolerable, and for the first time, maps out the brain connection that makes being with hurtful people comparable to 'a drug of choice.' Most importantly, Carnes provides practical steps to identify compulsive attachment patterns and ultimately to change or end them for good. This new edition includes: New science for understanding how our brains can make a prison of bad relationships New assessments and insights based on 50,000 research participants A new section utilizing the latest findings in attachment research and narrative therapy to concretely rewrite and rescript bad experiences A redefinition of the factors contributing to addictive relationships

Betrayal Trauma

Author: Jennifer J. Freyd
Publisher: Harvard University Press
ISBN: 0674253973
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 244

Book Description
This book lays bare the logic of forgotten abuse. Psychologist Jennifer Freyd's breakthrough theory explaining this phenomenon shows how psychogenic amnesia not only happens but, if the abuse occurred at the hands of a parent or caregiver, is often necessary for survival. Freyd's book will give embattled professionals, beleaguered abuse survivors, and the confused public a new, clear understanding of the lifelong effects and treatment of child abuse.

Blind to Betrayal

Author: Jennifer Freyd
Publisher: Turner Publishing Company
ISBN: 1118234480
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 186

Book Description
One of the world's top experts on betrayal looks at why we often can't see it right in front of our faces If the cover-up is worse than the crime, blindness to betrayal can be worse than the betrayal itself. Whether the betrayer is an unfaithful spouse, an abusive authority figure, an unfair boss, or a corrupt institution, we often refuse to see the truth order to protect ourselves. This book explores the fascinating phenomenon of how and why we ignore or deny betrayal, and what we can gain by transforming "betrayal blindness" into insight. Explains the psychological phenomenon of "betrayal blindness", in which we implicitly choose unawareness in order to avoid the risk of seeing treachery or injustice Based on the authors' substantial original research and clinical experience carried out over the last decade as well as their own story of confronting betrayal Filled with fascinating case studies involving unfaithful spouses, abusive authority figures and corrupt institutions, to name a few In a remarkable collaboration of science and clinical perspectives, Jennifer Freyd, one of the world's top experts on betrayal and child abuse, teams up with Pamela Birrell, a psychotherapist and educator with 25 years of experience.

Trauma Bonding

Author: Lauren Kozlowski
Publisher: Escape the Narcissist
ISBN:
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 59

Book Description
'If your relationship is so bad, why don't you just leave them?' 'If you were in such an abusive relationship, why did you stay with them for so long?' 'If you knew you were in a relationship with such a toxic person, why didn't you ask people for help?' If you've ever been asked these questions, aside from being ignorant and hurtful, you'll know it's beyond frustrating. The answer to the above questions, whilst it's complex and often confusing, can be given with two words: trauma bonded. If you find you're in a relationship that you know is so toxic that it's crushing your very being, but you can't bring yourself to leave, you may be in the clutches of a tight trauma bond. If you're constantly feeling on edge, forever working to appease your spouse to little avail and like you're constantly being chipped away at with their abusive behavior, then I can understand how emotionally shattering it feels to live this way. If in the same breath, it breaks your heart to even consider leaving them because you can't imagine life without them, then I can understand that feeling too; because I was trauma bonded to my abusive ex. From my own personal experience and from the experiences other survivors have opened up to me about, this book will cover the following: - What trauma bonding really is - The 7 stages that lead to you becoming trauma bonded - The parallels that Stockholm syndrome has with trauma bonding - The 5 stages you go through when you come to accept you're trauma bonded - The cognitive dissonance a trauma bond can cause - Breaking free from the traumatic bond This book will also include my own experiences and I'll draw upon those to help you really understand trauma bonding, and let you know that you're not alone in being shackled by this emotionally crippling bond. More importantly, this book will help you understand that the invisible chain that tethers you to your abuser can be broken.

Mending a Shattered Heart

Author: Stefanie Ph.D. Carnes
Publisher: eBookIt.com
ISBN: 0983271356
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 244

Book Description
When your partner betrays, what are the first steps to picking up the pieces of your shattered heart? Many unsuspecting people wake up every day to discover their loved one, the one person whom they are supposed to trust completely, has been living a life of lies and deceit because they suffer from a disease-sex addiction. This is a disease shrouded in secrecy and shame. This is your go-to-guide for what to do when you discover your partner is a sex addict. Each chapter is based on frequently asked questions by partners such as: Should I Stay or Should I Go? Is This Going to Get Better? How Do I Set Boundaries and Keep Myself Safe? and What Should I Tell the Kids?

Betrayal, Murder, and Greed

Author: Mike Beakley
Publisher:
ISBN: 9780882823133
Category : True Crime
Languages : en
Pages : 306

Book Description
How do you catch a criminal? It takes more than blood, sweat and tears - you need courage and a will of steel. Now, one unique team, a bail bond agent and a bounty hunter who's a heroic former cop, vow to protect the innocent, root out the criminals and change an industry which walks the line between legality and crime. Prepare yourself for an adventure unlike any other. Journey into the dark underbelly of society where peril and jeopardy loom at every corner and the unexpected is the most dangerous aspect of all. Shootouts, hot pursuits, nonstop action and murder fill the pages of this thrill ride of violent shakedowns, car bashings, fevered foot chases and harrowing gunfights. Here, bail agent Pam Phree and bounty hunter Mike "Darkside" Beakley share their most gripping stories, including run-ins with vicious gang members, career criminals, convicted murderers, felonious gun merchants, drug lords and even other bond agents and bounty hunters in their quest to change the industry, Also revealed are the pair's intense struggles, fierce clashes and hard fought battles to ultimately achieve having new laws passed requiring background checks for aspiring bounty hunters, rigorous program training and state certified licensing. Additionally, Phree and Beakley investigate potential "dirty" agents in search of the truth behind the whispers and innuendos taking place behind closed doors. Betrayal, Murder and Greed: The True Story of a Bounty Hunter and a Bail Bond Agent is a genuine modern day docudrama put to paper, chronicling how two brave people risk their lives and reputations to help the innocent and bring the bad guys to trial. These stories are brutal and sympathetic, but always exhilarating. Learn how they joined together and continue to bring savage fugitives to justice.

Courageous Love

Author: Dr. Stefanie Carnes
Publisher: eBookIt.com
ISBN: 194046708X
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 162

Book Description
There is nothing that can rupture the loving connection between a couple like betrayal. In Courageous Love, Dr. Stefanie Carnes provides a step-by-step guide for repairing your relationship, whether it is damaged by infidelity, pornography or compulsive and addictive sexual behavior. Dr. Carnes teaches couples how to respond to one another with compassion and empathy and how to hold onto hope for their relationship. She outlines a detailed process to getting your relationship back on track and into a new stage of development. This book is a must read for couples struggling with the aftermath of betrayal.

Lies We Tell Ourselves

Author: Jon Frederickson
Publisher:
ISBN: 9780988378889
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 0

Book Description
"In The Lies We Tell Ourselves, psychotherapist Jon Frederickson reveals the ways we fool ourselves and how to get unstuck. Through dozens of stories and examples, he demonstrates that the apparent cause of our problems is almost never the real cause. In addition, he reveals what we really fear and how to face it. In the spirit of Stephen Grosz and Irving Yalom, Frederickson shows how to recognize the lies we tell ourselves and face the truths we have avoided--and stop saying yes when we really mean no."--Amazon.com.

The Betrayal

Author: Sabin Willett
Publisher:
ISBN:
Category : Betrayal
Languages : en
Pages : 0

Book Description

Hostage Lands

Author: Douglas Bond
Publisher: P & R Publishing
ISBN: 9781596380271
Category : Juvenile Fiction
Languages : en
Pages : 0

Book Description
Neil Perkins, a Latin student at Haltwhistle Grammar School in England, unearths an ancient Roman manuscript. He dedicates himself to study Latin and so uncovers a story of treachery and betrayal from the third century. Disaffected centurion, Rusticus, serves Rome at Hadrian's Wall, an unruly frontier. A Celt named Calum, who was deeply changed when he saw Christians martyred in the Roman Coliseum, saves Perkins from a massacre. Not only will you learn the differences between ancient paganism and the primal Christian faith practiced in third-century Britain, but you will discover a more thoughtful approach to life as a result.