Distant Partners

Author: Ben W. Lappin
Publisher: University Press of America
ISBN: 9780819177605
Category : Business & Economics
Languages : en
Pages : 310

Book Description
Offers an inside look at two communities, half a world apart, who became partners. One needed aid and the other had the means to help; the book chronicles their relationship in all its complexities, pitfalls, successes and failures. This unique documentary provides a day-by-day, blow-by-blow record of community development in practice. It is presented in full and analyzed by the two authors, one of whom was the community worker while the other was a member of the Croydon committee which was responsible for implementing the agreement.

Distant Partner

Author: Les Carter
Publisher: Thomas Nelson
ISBN: 9780785275510
Category : Religion
Languages : en
Pages : 0

Book Description
Distant Partner is a book for those who have a relationship with too much busyness and not enogh personal sharing.

Marriage Rules

Author: Harriet Lerner
Publisher: Penguin
ISBN: 1101554215
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 257

Book Description
Following a unique format perfect for today's world, the renowned author of The Dance of Anger gives us just over 100 rules that cover all the hot spots in long-term relationships. Marriage Rules offers new solutions to age-old problems ("He won't talk"/"She doesn't want sex") as well as modern ones (your partner's relationship to technology.) You'll also learn how to: Calm things down and warm them up Talk straight and fight fair Listen well as a spiritual practice Connect with a distant partner Survive the unique challenges of children, stepchildren and difficult- laws Follow a 12-step program to overcome defensiveness Know how and when to draw the line Take back your marriage when things fall apart Marriage Rules is a treasure chest of lively, practical advice to help you navigate your couple relationship with clarity, courage, and joyous conviction. If one person in a couple follows ten rules of his or her choice, it will generate a major, positive change. All that's required is a genuine wish for a better relationship and a willingness to practice.

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

Author: John Gray
Publisher: Harper Collins
ISBN: 006016848X
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 312

Book Description
Popular marriage counselor and seminar leader John Gray provides a unique, practical and proven way for men and women to communicate and relate better by acknowledging the differences between them. Once upon a time Martians and Venusians met, fell in love, and had happy relationships together because they respected and accepted their differences. Then they came to earth and amnesia set in: they forgot they were from different planets. Using this metaphor to illustrate the commonly occurring conflicts between men and women, Gray explains how these differences can come between the sexes and prohibit mutually fulfilling loving relationships. Based on years of successful counseling of couples, he gives advice on how to counteract these differences in communication styles, emotional needs and modes of behavior to promote a greater understanding between individual partners. Gray shows how men and women react differently in conversation and how their relationships are affected by male intimacy cycles ("get close", "back off"), and female self-esteem fluctuations ("I'm okay", "I'm not okay"). He encourages readers to accept the other gender's particular way of expressing love, and helps men and women learn how to fulfill each other's emotional needs. With practical suggestions on how to reduce conflict, crucial information on how to interpret a partner's behavior and methods for preventing emotional "trash from the past" from invading new relationships, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus is a valuable tool for couples who want to develop deeper and more satisfying relationships with their partners.

Neurodiverse Relationships

Author: Joanna Stevenson
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
ISBN: 1787750299
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 218

Book Description
Comprised of the accounts of twelve heterosexual couples in which the man is on the Autism Spectrum, this book invites both partners to discuss their own perspectives of different key issues, including anxiety, empathy, employment and socialising. Autism expert Tony Attwood contributes a commentary and a question and answer section for each of the twelve accounts. The first book of its kind to provide perspectives from both sides of a relationship on a variety of different topics, Neurodiverse Relationships is the perfect companion for couples in neurodiverse relationships who are trying to understand one another better.

Relating in Psychotherapy

Author: John Birtchnell
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1135057389
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 289

Book Description
In John Birtchnell's last book How Humans Relate, he proposed a new theory as the basis for a science of relating. Relating in Psychotherapy explains how the relevance of this theory relates to the practice of psychotherapy. The theory cuts across all schools of therapy, and is a way of describing each school in terms of relating in both the client and the therapist. The theory is constructed around two major axes; a horizontal one concerning the degree to which we need to become involved with or separated from others, and a vertical one concerning the degree to which we choose to exercise power over others or permit others to exercise their power over us. With numerous clinical examples, John Birtchnell explains how we need to be competet in all four relating positions (close, distant, upper and lower), and argues that people who seek therapy usually lack competence in one or more of them, but through the course of therapy, their relating capabilities can be improved. Relating in Psychotherapy can have applications in psychotherapy and in couple and family therapy, and will be an invaluable resource for therapists, counsellors and other mental health professionals.

Running on Empty No More

Author: Jonice Webb
Publisher: Morgan James Publishing
ISBN: 168350674X
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 228

Book Description
“Opens doors to richer, more connected relationships by naming the elephant in the room ‘Childhood Emotional Neglect’” (Harville Hendrix, PhD & Helen Lakelly Hunt, PhD, authors of the New York Times bestseller Getting the Love You Want). Since the publication of Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect, many thousands of people have learned that invisible Childhood Emotional Neglect, or CEN, has been weighing on them their entire lives, and are now in the process of recovery. Running on Empty No More: Transform Your Relationships will offer even more solutions for the effects of CEN on people’s lives: how to talk about CEN, and heal it, in relationships with partners, parents, and children. “Filled with examples of well-meaning people struggling in their relationships, Jonice Webb not only illustrates what’s missing between adults and their parents, husbands, and their wives, and parents and their children; she also explains exactly what to do about it.” —Terry Real, internationally recognized family therapist, speaker and author, Good Morning America, The Today Show, 20/20, Oprah, and The New York Times “You will find practical solutions for everyday life to heal yourself and your relationships. This is a terrific new resource that I will be recommending to many clients now and in the future!” —Dr. Karyl McBride, author of Will I Ever Be Good Enough?

Handbook of Interpersonal Commitment and Relationship Stability

Author: Jeffrey M. Adams
Publisher: Springer Science & Business Media
ISBN: 1461547733
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 560

Book Description
A fundamental assumption underlying the formation of our most important relationships is that they will persist indefinitely into the future. As an acquaintanceship turns into a friend ship, for example, both members of this newly formed interpersonal bond are likely to expect that their interactions will become increasingly frequent, diverse, and intimate over time. This expectation is perhaps most apparent in romantically involved couples who, through a variety of verbal and symbolic means, make explicit pledges to a long-lasting relationship. In either case, it is clear that these relationships represent something valuable to the individuals in volved and are pursued with great enthusiasm. Virtually all close relationships are formed within the context of mutually rewarding in teractions and/or strong physical attraction between partners. Friends and romantically in volved couples alike are drawn to one another because of similarity of attitudes, interests, and personality and, quite simply, because they enjoy one another's company. This enjoyment, cou pled with the novelty that characterizes new relationships, almost makes the continuation of the relationship a foregone conclusion. As relationships progress, however, their novelty fades, conflicts may arise between partners, negative life events may occur, and the satisfaction that previously characterized the relationships may diminish.

The Long Distance Romance Guide

Author: Leslie Karsner
Publisher: iUniverse
ISBN: 9780595091812
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 144

Book Description
Distance CAN make the heart grow fonder! Whether a couple has been together for years or just met, The Long Distance Romance Guide is a love-saver for college students, military spouses, Internet daters and business travelers. Romance Coach Leslie Karsner offers proven strategies for keeping your love strong (and making it stronger) in The Long Distance Romance Guide. Learn the secrets for staying connected... Care packages Long-distance Lovemaking Inducing dreams together Tips, quotes, songs and...much more! "At long last we have a guide on how to nurture relationships with elegance, class, style and savior-faire."-Mark Victor Hansen, Co-creator, #1 New York Times best-selling series Chicken Soup for the Soul "Salves for the lovelorn plenty of cures for heartache "-Associated Press "(Karsner's) unique, over-the-phone relationship counseling has helped patch up the problems of hundreds of couples nationwide."-Cosmopolitan "(Karsner's) Romance Coaching is not coaching on a love affair. Instead it is about romance with yourself, a passion for life and getting the flame burning again."-The Washington Post

Intimate Couple

Author: Jon Carlson
Publisher: Routledge
ISBN: 1134870175
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 534

Book Description
As important as intimacy is in our personal and professional lives, intimacy as a theoretical and clinical factor still remains a phenomenon. Contributors to this work examine the many definitions of intimacy, putting forth a provocative discussion of the multi-faceted topic and offering the best possible clinical methods of creating intimacy and addressing its challenges.