Emotionally Intelligent Parenting

Author: Maurice J. Elias Ph.D.
Publisher: Harmony
ISBN: 0307788954
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 272

Book Description
Have you, as a parent, ever found yourself treating your children in a way you would never tolerate from someone else? The authors of Emotionally Intelligent Parenting call for a new Golden Rule: Do unto your children as you would have other people do unto your children. And most important, they show us how to live by it. Based upon extensive research, firsthand experience, and case studies, Emotionally Intelligent Parenting breaks the mold of traditional parenting books by taking into account the strong role of emotions -- those of parents and children -- in psychological development. With this book, parents will learn how to communicate with children on a deeper, more gratifying level and how to help them successfully navigate the intricacies of relating to others. The authors take the five basic principles of Daniel Goleman's best-seller, Emotional Intelligence, and explain how they can be applied to successful parenting. To this end, the book offers suggestions, stories, dialogues, activities, and a special section of Sound EQ Parenting Bites to help parents use their emotions in the most constructive ways, focusing on such everyday issues as sibling rivalry, fights with friends, school situations, homework, and peer pressure. In the authors' extensive experience, children respond quickly to these strategies, their self-confidence is strengthened, their curiosity is piqued, and they learn to assert their independence while developing their ability to make responsible choices.

Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child

Author: John Gottman
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
ISBN: 143912616X
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 246

Book Description
Intelligence That Comes from the Heart Every parent knows the importance of equipping children with the intellectual skills they need to succeed in school and life. But children also need to master their emotions. Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child is a guide to teaching children to understand and regulate their emotional world. And as acclaimed psychologist and researcher John Gottman shows, once they master this important life skill, emotionally intelligent children will enjoy increased self-confidence, greater physical health, better performance in school, and healthier social relationships. Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child will equip parents with a five-step "emotion coaching" process that teaches how to: * Be aware of a child's emotions * Recognize emotional expression as an opportunity for intimacy and teaching * Listen empathetically and validate a child's feelings * Label emotions in words a child can understand * Help a child come up with an appropriate way to solve a problem or deal with an upsetting issue or situation Written for parents of children of all ages, Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child will enrich the bonds between parent and child and contribute immeasurably to the development of a generation of emotionally healthy adults.

The Heart of Parenting

Author: John Mordechai Gottman
Publisher:
ISBN: 9780684801308
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 239

Book Description
A professor of psychology details a five-step process called "motion coaching" that allows parents to raise a child better able to cope with his or her emotions. 35,000 first printing.

The Everything Parent's Guide to Emotional Intelligence in Children

Author: Korrel Kanoy
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
ISBN: 1440551944
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 343

Book Description
Put your child on the path to success! A child's emotional intelligence has been shown to be one of the strongest factors in whether or not that child will be successful later in life. A child with high emotional intelligence (EQ) has good self-control, resilience, and empathy--all factors that help build a foundation for a more grounded, satisfying, and successful life. With The Everything Parent's Guide to Emotional Intelligence in Children, you will learn how to help your child: Improve academic achievement and behavior. Achieve mindfulness. Understand emotions. Empathize with others. Improve self-confidence. Build inner resilience. This hands-on guide shows you exactly how to promote core EQ skills in your child and provides you with all you need to help your children achieve their greatest potential.

Raising Emotionally Intelligent Teenagers

Author: Maurice J. Elias
Publisher: Harmony
ISBN: 9780609602980
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 272

Book Description
The authors of Emotionally Intelligent Parenting focus their attention and expertise on the toughest parenting job of all: raising emotionally intelligent teenagers. Just when parents think they've successfully navigated the baffling challenges of raising young children, they're astonished to find those same kids have become teenagers -- an entirely new genus altogether! Raising Emotionally Intelligent Teenagers provides specific strategies for applying the insights of Daniel Goleman's best-seller, Emotional Intelligence, to this most challenging stage in parenting. Not only do raging hormones make everything more intense for teenagers, but they have their own special issues concerning identity, self-confidence, peer pressure, and responsibility, including individuating from their parents. Drs. Elias, Tobias, and Friedlander, all respected experts in child behavior, have written a clear, informative book of sound advice to help parents raise knowledgeable, responsible, nonviolent, and caring teenagers who will mature into well-adjusted young adults. Raising Emotionally Intelligent Teenagers is packed with real-life scenarios, practical strategies, the answers to the questions parents ask most frequently, and even questionnaires and quizzes. All of this useful information is drawn from the authors' professional and personal experiences and is given with warmth and humor. There is a great chapter for parents and teens to read and laugh over together and one that addresses teens who are particularly tough to raise. The authors, professionals and parents who have seen it all, know how to help you and your teenagers communicate.

Confident Parents, Confident Kids

Author: Jennifer S. Miller
Publisher: Fair Winds Press
ISBN: 1631597752
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 192

Book Description
Confident Parents, Confident Kids lays out an approach for helping parents—and the kids they love—hone their emotional intelligence so that they can make wise choices, connect and communicate well with others (even when patience is thin), and become socially conscious and confident human beings. How do we raise a happy, confident kid? And how can we be confident that our parenting is preparing our child for success? Our confidence develops from understanding and having a mastery over our emotions (aka emotional intelligence)—and helping our children do the same. Like learning to play a musical instrument, we can fine-tune our ability to skillfully react to those crazy, wonderful, big feelings that naturally arise from our child’s constant growth and changes, moving from chaos to harmony. We want our children to trust that they can conquer any challenge with hard work and persistence; that they can love boundlessly; that they will find their unique sense of purpose; and they will act wisely in a complex world. This book shows you how. With author and educator Jennifer Miller as your supportive guide, you'll learn: the lies we’ve been told about emotions, how they shape our choices, and how we can reshape our parenting decisions in better alignment with our deepest values. how to identify the temperaments your child was born with so you can support those tendencies rather than fight them. how to align your biggest hopes and dreams for your kids with specific skills that can be practiced, along with new research to support those powerful connections. about each age and stage your child goes through and the range of learning opportunities available. how to identify and manage those big emotions (that only the parenting process can bring out in us!) and how to model emotional intelligence for your children. how to deal with the emotions and influences of your choir—the many outside individuals and communities who directly impact your child’s life, including school, the digital world, extended family, neighbors, and friends. Raising confident, centered, happy kids—while feeling the same way about yourself—is possible with Confident Parents, Confident Kids.

Emotional Intelligence for Kids

Author: Scott Harper
Publisher:
ISBN:
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 128

Book Description
Do you want to raise a happy, healthy, and successful child? Do you want to help them develop self-control and self-awareness? Do you want your child's relationship skills to be sharp and intuitive? If so, this is the right book for you! Did you know that emotional intelligence is more relevant to success, health, and happiness than intellectual skills? Did you know that, regardless of how much money you have or invest in your child, your teachings about how to cope with feelings affect their life the most? Research has shown that children who have better developed emotional intelligence have happier and healthier relationships, do better at school and college, and have more successful careers. Did you know that a child who is well-taught to identify, understand, and control their feelings will be healthier compared to a child who gives in to feelings? There are precise strategies that parents should use to help children understand and cope with difficult feelings and this book can guide you. Understanding of what emotional intelligence is and how children develop it. Understanding how your child matures emotionally and what you can do to support emotional growth. Common parental mistakes that harm children's emotional development. Methods and steps to apply emotional coaching for anger and anxiety. Strategies and coaching tools to teach your child to be happy while overcoming obstacles. Emotional intelligence tips to cope with teasing and bullying. And so much more! This practical guide will help you fully understand what emotions are, what they're for, how they affect actions, and of course, why children act the way they do. By the time you have finished reading this book, you'll know exactly how to respond the next time your child throws a tantrum! You'll know what to do, how to act, and what to say to coach your child and save yourself some stress! That way, your child will be less prone to inappropriate reactions, and at the same time, they'll be better equipped to tackle life's challenges!

Raising a Secure Child

Author: Kent Hoffman
Publisher: Guilford Publications
ISBN: 1462528139
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 297

Book Description
Today's parents are constantly pressured to be perfect. But in striving to do everything right, we risk missing what children really need for lifelong emotional security. Now the simple, powerful "Circle of Security" parenting strategies that Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, and Bert Powell have taught thousands of families are available in self-help form for the first time.ÿ You will learn:ÿ *How to balance nurturing and protectiveness with promoting your child's independence.ÿ *What emotional needs a toddler or older child may be expressing through difficult behavior. *How your own upbringing affects your parenting style--and what you can do about it.ÿ Filled with vivid stories and unique practical tools, this book puts the keys to healthy attachment within everyone's reach--self-understanding, flexibility, and the willingness to make and learn from mistakes. Self-assessment checklists can be downloaded and printed for ease of use.

Emotional Intelligence for Kids

Author: Mark T. Coleman
Publisher: Independently Published
ISBN: 9781689109208
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 219

Book Description
BUY THE PAPERBACK VERSION OF THIS BOOK ON AMAZON.COM AND GET THE KINDLE BOOK VERSION FOR FREE Have your children ever completely lost it in the middle of the grocery store? Not just being fussy, but a full-blown tantrum with snot and tears running down their faces as They screech about how awful of a parent you are? Maybe you told them that they could not have a piece of candy or a new toy and they went into complete meltdown mode. Did you struggle to calm your child down during this tantrum? Perhaps everything you said and did only exacerbated the situation, and ultimately led to both of you losing your temper. What if someone told you that there is a five-step process to mitigating your children's tantrums and teaching them to be more able to control their own emotions? Emotion coaching is a type of relationship that endeavors to do just that. An emotion coaching parent guides the child through the throes of emotions, helping the child navigate through all of the overwhelming feelings, and emerging better able to cope with the adversities life throws at him or her in a more mature and resilient manner. Children who have been parented in this manner are typically far more successful than their peers at navigating through tough situations and creating meaningful, healthy relationships and friendships. Through the five steps of emotion coaching, you will be there with your child through the failures and successes, teaching your child to navigate through emotions and develop critical skills that will allow your child to develop a higher EQ (emotional intelligence quotient). Each of these steps builds upon each other to help you solve conflicts and mitigate tantrums or other unacceptable behaviors by teaching your child to be emotionally conscientious. These steps will create an emotionally intelligent young child who is better equipped to tackle the world head-on and deal with anything life throws at him or her. Within the pages of this book, you will be guided on how to parent in an emotion coaching manner with the end goal being to develop overall emotional intelligence. You will learn all the different ways emotional intelligence is relevant to both yourself and your child, especially in stressful situations such as divorce. You will find: Essential facts about emotional intelligence The elements of emotion coaching, as well as commonly made mistakes The five steps to emotion coaching, and several tips for how to raise an emotionally intelligent child A list of recommended books for children of all ages to aid in emotional intelligence development An assessment for how effective you are at emotion coaching How emotional intelligence of the father is important to the emotional intelligence of his children Examples of both children and teens with lower and higher EQs and how emotion coaching can help them And more! Would You Like to Know More? Scroll to the top of the page and select the buy now button

Smart Parenting for Smart Kids

Author: Eileen Kennedy-Moore
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons
ISBN: 047094000X
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 327

Book Description
WINNER! Mom's Choice Gold Award for parenting books -- Mom's Choice Awards: The best in family-friendly media "My kid is smart, but..." It takes more than school smarts to create a fulfilling life. In fact, many bright children face special challenges: Some are driven by perfectionism; Some are afraid of effort, because they're used to instant success; Some routinely butt heads with authority figures; Some struggle to get along with their peers; Some are outwardly successful but just don't feel good about themselves. This practical and compassionate book explains the reasons behind these struggles and offers parents do-able strategies to help children cope with feelings, embrace learning, and build satisfying relationships. Drawing from research as well as the authors’ clinical experience, it focuses on the essential skills children need to make the most of their abilities and become capable, confident, and caring people.